Often, in life, we are given situations where we must choose to either move forward and make a change, or where we choose to let life circumstances defeat us.
Several days ago, someone that I love dearly received chastising about a situation that he was involved in. The chastisement seemed out of proportion to the seriousness of the situation. It reminded me of the put downs that many of us received from our parents (fathers) in our early lives. The tone of the chastisement was along the lines of “how can you be so stupid”, and “I am so much smarter than you”; put downs that we now all realize are about power and not about any constructive coaching or team building.
As I was thinking through the situation, and feeling thankful that I was no longer in that corporate situation, I saw the picture below, from Spirit, and realized that Duck had a comment for me. Duck is a spirit animal that brings many messages to humans, messages that are often ignored.
The comment was “sink or swim”! From the moment that Duck is born, she must make her way through the grass down into the water. She is not safe on the land from Fox, Hawk, Coyote, Snake, Racoon, Weasel, or even Cat or Dog. When she gets in the water, she is not safe from Turtle, Fish, Eagle, or other predators. Yet, she swims! She does not give up. To escape those who would diminish her, she simply swims faster until the time comes when she can fly, and then she flies faster.
Life, Duck says, is about getting on, and not getting down. Life is about finding the flow, and staying in the current, and keeping moving. The nature of things is about moving and change, and never giving up. Life is about loving one’s self enough to keep trying.
And that, says Duck, is the meditation for today – sink or swim.
Ducks from amolife.com
Many blessings,
Judy